I started the Upledger CST training on my own behalf. Being modular, it suited me, living in Mallorca. Some of the courses were in Ireland, some in Edinburgh. I was finishing my training when I was pregnant at the same time as having a child who didn’t sleep – yes, my own children led me into it, just as they’re supposed to! This probably explains my particular interest in the Paediatrics side of CST.
I went to Dr John Upledger’s Symposium in 1997 and was completely blown away by the energy of this big warm man – all the clichés! It was as if he had a giant hot water bottle inside him; he just glowed from the inside with life and generosity. He made the work completely simple and accessible: “So, just do that, then.” We all sobbed when he died because his philosophy had changed and touched so many people’s lives – it affected and shaped my relationship with my children, my husband, my parents. His is a deep philosophy; there is the epitome of something in the core – our whole family has been caught up in the ripple.
The clinic I was working at in Mallorca was multidiscipline, and this resulted in a beautiful overlap: people came for massage and I’d ask them if I could add bits of other trainings. I’d start with diaphragm releases and the transition between modalities became entirely fluid, whole-body, integrating with the soft tissue. My first modality, Aromatherapy, was ordered and straightforward and prescriptive – CST gave it a freedom. By now, my 10-step work was well in place via volunteers. I got established, did heaps of practice, practice, practice. I saw the response and almost wondered why I ever did anything else.
These days, I advertise remedial massage, which gets people in through the door. Where I live they’ve never heard about CST. It’s a question of educating, working locally. The only way is word of mouth. My website is broad, but word of mouth is what brings referrals, particularly with babies, or frozen shoulders, or sports injuries. Babies more than anything.
Perhaps 15% of people come now for soft treatment work, but I do cranial work on all, really – you can’t help it when you know it. For example, I might have a big burly builder come in and I’d say: “I’m going to try something different to get through this tough muscle” – flattering him! Then the CST work softens the tissue and complements a massage perfectly. CV4, tissue release, fluid exchange, direction of energy, joint mobilisation, energy cyst – I talk about tightness – it all adds in, works in, via the dural tube. CV4 really helps. Autonomics set in.
CST is all about listening to the tissue. I feel it’s my daily motto: “Stop doing – just listen!” For me, the art is in the listening. I learnt it from Stan Jerome and from Sanno, such fantastic listeners. I watched them listen – mirror – match – back and forth – working with the body movements. Every day I’m hearing stuff in a new way. We have a brilliant Study Group – it has got bigger and bigger and bigger; everyone practising in their own way.
CST is about being there, while most other modalities are about doing something. It’s as different as night and day. Your role as a therapist is so different from any other therapy. It’s not in the slightest that we’re passive, but we are neutral. You discover that it’s not a practice, it’s a philosophy. I love going to work. Every single case is different. I hear people’s stories verbally and then hear them again through the tissues. I love that. It’s as if we go exploring together, panning for gold. Sometimes the journey can be painful, sometimes enlightening and beautiful. CST is sound from the ground up. It’s such a joy, such a find, I’m so lucky.
Read more about her on her website, Carolyn O’Neill CST-D, MCSS, The Art of Listening. www.carolynoneillcst.co.uk
Caro was Treasurer and a Director of the Cranio Sacral Society for three years.